So I’m not going to explain this right now or give lots of annoying chronology, but–surprise, surprise–I’m back at Robbie’s. In retrospect, it seems to both of us that even trying to be apart was really stupid. I’ve been here for two weeks and am planning to stay one more; this will be about the longest we’ve ever spent together. Our fights have nearly evaporated. We’ve come to agreements about how to resolve differences about distance, D/s, playing with other people, and kids. And we are having a hell of a fun, kinky, loving time. It’s all black-picket-fence domestic bliss here. He cooks dinner and makes me eat with bared breasts; I black his boots and clean the cage he’s planning to put me. We are in luv.
There’s lots more to tell. The seven or eight weeks we spent apart were good for both of us, in their own way. We each had wild sexual adventures, time to think about what mattered to us, new realizations, and–did I mention?–wild sexual adventures. I want to write about all of that, and about our current play.
Right now, though, I have to get back to things like boot-blacking, so I’ll just give a taste of what’s happening here. Below is the list Robbie made of all the pervy things we wanted to do during this visit. The items that are crossed off are things we’ve already done–but as you can see, there is plenty more to do. I can’t wait.
Things to Do – March . . . Visit
talk, resolve
love, understand, accept
rope take down
cage rope
swing outdoors
switch again? medical
cellars etc. . . .
photo needles again?
Beat Week hogtie
wax burlesque
knife play fisting
breath control figging
rope cell popping
clips and clamps
etc. . . .
Illustration from concept boards for the TV show “The Ex List” by Chris Carboni, who also makes wonderful short films.
March 29, 2010 at 10:31 am
Oh this makes me happy 🙂
March 29, 2010 at 10:38 am
Oh that makes me relieved. I thought everyone would just think we were insane. 😀 (We are, but this time it’s a happy, manic kind.)
March 29, 2010 at 2:14 pm
Oh wow! I’m pleased too! I knew you’d be back before long. The list looks awesome and I’m looking forward to seeing more crossed off! Yay!
t. x
March 29, 2010 at 3:13 pm
hey trin.–you’re right, it’s super-fun for me to think about progress on the list . . . except then he adds “again?” onto an item and I think, oh, we’ll never get it all done! 😉
March 30, 2010 at 5:40 pm
More accounts of wild sexual adventures, please.
March 30, 2010 at 5:41 pm
Aw great.
You do seem to approach the sex experience like you’re trying to get your boy and girlscout badges though. But it’s cute. Have fun!
March 31, 2010 at 7:35 am
thumper–oh dear, I hope things haven’t gotten square and Victorian around here. I’ll get right on it!
Jo–scout badges–I love it! That’s totally true . . . goodie-two-shoes first-born over-achieving kinksters. Well, he’s a lot less good than I am . . . 😉
March 31, 2010 at 4:16 pm
WEll, I bet you’re the best 🙂
Did you get a little email query from me?
March 31, 2010 at 7:44 pm
Cheers for wild sexual adventures! I’m glad things are working out, and that is quite a lovely to-do list (except the needles, eep). But why oh why hasn’t rope been crossed off yet? And why is it only listed three times on the list?
Sorry, I’m a tad biased…
Also: hurrah to bootblacking!
April 1, 2010 at 1:53 am
btw if you need a cage, you can borrow mine… you just need to get yourself over this way 😉
t. x
April 2, 2010 at 9:45 am
Jo–just wrote back, sorry for the delay. 😉
nell–you’re right, rope should be crossed off by now (Robbie pointed that out to me too–I’ll fix it now. We HAVE done lots of good rope play.) And I also agree–one can’t have enough of it!
t-p–I can’t believe that my lust for your cage is so obvious that you figured it out. 😉 Your kind offer–and of course the opportunity to meet you and SG–is nearly enough incentive to buy the plane tix! 🙂